At 3, the main question on his mind is, ‘Why?’
Wednesday, April 30th, 2008Source: The Register-Guard (Original Article)
Dear Cade,
As you turn 3 this week, I’m reminded of how much you’ve changed since last year’s letter to you. You’re taller, stronger and string sentences together that generally get your point across even if they sometimes include a few mangled or made-up words. You could be president someday.
A high percentage of those sentences end with question marks. You are the living embodiment of the title of that Sherwood Anderson short story, “I Want to Know Why.â€Â
That can be challenging for a grandfather because your constant questions remind me of how quickly I run out of answers. At times I’ve almost resorted to that desperate reply, “Why not?â€Â
I haven’t seen a lot of that “Terrible Twos†stuff in you, but you’re more independent than you were a year ago. More assertive. More opinionated.
For example, you’re philosophically opposed to the drink orders scribbled on Starbucks cups by the cashier so the barista knows what to make.
“Bob-bob, why she do that?†you ask.
“So the person making the drinks will know to make me a hot chocolate, extra hot,†I say.
“Why?â€Â
“So I won’t get coffee or warm chocolate.â€Â
“Why?â€Â
“That’s just the way it is.â€Â
“I don’t like that.â€Â
What you do like is garbage trucks, those giant ducks around town (especially Ocean Duck at the Oakway Center) and any kind of heavy machinery that digs, pushes, scoops, grades, hauls or packs down dirt.
Many of our Tuesday morning dates this past year involved watching such machinery. We watched a bulldozer push dirt around for 13 solid minutes at the new Walgreens on Coburg Road.
“OK, Cade-O, let’s go,†I finally said.
“No, Bob-bob.â€Â
“We have to get going, Cade.â€Â
“Few more minutes,†you said, which is CadeSpeak for “I am entrenched here for eternity, pal. Live with it.â€Â
Oh, MEDIUM dvd but what times we’ve had. Who …continue reading